There’s an older man in my neighborhood who picks up trash on his walks. He usually uses a trash pickup tool to reach trash on the ground.

One day, I noticed that he didn’t have the tool. When he bent over to pick up a piece of trash, he didn’t have the range of motion he needed and he toppled over. Into the street! As a city bus approached!

He was unable to stand up on his own.

He was so embarrassed. He was still embarrassed days later when I passed him on the street.

Here’s what I learned from this:

Flexibility and balance are important as we age.
Don’t let embarrassment prevent you from accepting help when you need it and don’t let fear stand between you and the life that you want.
It’s never too late to increase your flexibility and improve your balance.

When it comes to improving your flexibility, you’ve probably been scrolling through Instagram looking for workout inspiration. You’ve been admiring all those cool yoga accounts but feel too intimidated by the gravity-defying yoga poses. You feel unmotivated, tired, and you don’t know where to begin. Or maybe, you’re already practicing yoga and want to advance in your practice but aren’t able to keep a consistent practice.

Here are a few tips to increase flexibility with ease:

1. Consider why you want to improve flexibility and why you struggle increase it. There are many reasons why we struggle to increase flexibility including bone shape, body proportion, body awareness, intention, strength and length of tissue, past injuries, genetics, and lifestyle. Good news! The reasons why we struggle are also the things that can help us improve our flexibility. For example, you can’t change the shape of your bones but you can change the angle of the bone so that you can more easily enter a yoga pose. For instance, in Half Pigeon pose, if it’s difficult for your front leg to be parallel with the mat, try bringing it closer to your body.

2. Consider your body’s shape. As beginner yoga practitioner, I struggled to find examples of others who looked like me. I researched different poses and did not find anyone who looked like me or had my body type. Without this information, it was sometimes difficult to know how to get into a pose or what my body would look like in the pose. Consider you body’s proportion and that you may like to make more space for yourself in a pose so that the pose is comfortable for you, you enjoy your practice, and you continue to practice. It’s okay to enter a pose differently than others. For instance, instead of keeping your knees together in child’s pose, consider doing this pose with your knees far apart. It’s okay to enter a pose differently than others

3. Be consistent and practice your stretches every day. Start with a few minutes and work up to an hour or more. Try doing these stretches after a workout or while watching TV. Try these yoga stretches: crescent lunge, malasana, wide legged forward fold, half pigeon and double pigeon, and standing and seated forward fold.

4. Commit to working with a professional fitness instructor or stretch coach to help you reach your goals. I’m working on front splits. I’ve tried to work on this on my own in the past but just haven’t been able to get to where I want to be on my own. I realized I need a little help from an expert so I committed to working with a stretch coach. It’s not always easy to admit when you need support but occasionally we all need help. It was not easy but, after just one session, I was able do things I haven’t ever been able to do. I visibly progressed in just two hours!

Random classes aren’t going to work. One day, you’re on YouTube. Another day, you’re on Pinterest. On another day, you’re doing your saved Instagram or Facebook workouts. You don’t need to do everything. To get the results you want, you’ll need to focus your efforts on the right things. Try a proven method rather than a series random of workout videos that will not get you the result that you’re looking for. You need a structured plan and one-on-one support.

Learn more in the Couch to Consistent course where you’ll see how to stop struggling, make time for yourself, and workout regularly.

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